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The Desire System – Dating Advice For Men

friendly girl next door typeLots of guys secretly wish that they more skills when it comes to dating so that they could actually date the women they really want. However, many are misled into thinking that it is all just a game, and make the grave mistake of failing to connect in a genuine way.

It may sound cliche, but being the perfect gentleman when you are first getting to know a woman can go a long way towards getting her interested in you. Your date, even if she has strong feminist inclinations, will appreciate being treated like the lady that she is. She will be pleased when you show her the traditional niceties like holding open a door for her, allowing her to enter the room before you do, and pulling out a chair for her. Lovely manners like these will get you ahead of the pack.

Of course for those of you who read up on this sort of thing and who are familiar with The Desire System may question whether all this is really necessary. My response is that you should probably do both (being a badass certainly has its place though!)

Here are a few pieces of dating advice that blend being a badass with being her knight in shining armor in such a way that she will likely fall head over heels for you:

1 – Give Her Your Full Attention

Another gentlemanly and considerate thing to do is to keep your attention on her. There is nothing more off putting to a woman out on a date with you than to find you eyeing the seductive girl seated at the table across yours. Even when you try to be furtive about it, your date will notice. And this will certainly not get you plus points. Nothing gets your date’s fancy like your full attention on her. This will get her all flushed the entire night – and get her to think highly of you as boyfriend material. The next time you ask her out for another date, she will be inclined to say yes with enthusiasm.

2 – Create Romance

If you really want to pursue your girl, make sure that you create romance. Nothing gets to a girl like being romanced. Be thoughtful. Send her flowers. Buy her candy, beautiful mood music, perfumes, and jewelry. Let her know that she is constantly on your mind. When you go out on subsequent dates, make them memorable for her. Take her to fine restaurants. If she has a passion for dancing, take her to nightclubs. If she likes romantic movies, watch them with her. If she likes reading, take her to a bookstore and get her the books that she likes. All these will let her know that you think keenly enough of her and that you think nothing of going out of your way to find out what her interests are in order to indulge her.

3 – Learn About Women And Female Psychology

When you understand how women think, you become unstoppable. The fact is that most men really don’t understand women at all. In fact, this concept of “not understanding women” is something that men like to joke about. In reality however, you can understand a lot about how women think and why they do the things they do, and then turn around and use this little known wisdom to your advantage. Yeah, learning about women takes some work, you need to read and you also need to get out there and learn from experience, but the reward you get from this work is massive and very well worth it in my opinion.

So don’t be lazy. Get out there and learn new things, you’ll be glad you did!